The Measure of a Man

By: Miles Jaye

(July 4, 2007) The satin-finish, ebonystretch bowed to the crimson carpet curb with a single open port. It’s precious cargo emerged, ascending like a Genie from Aladdin’s lamp in a perfect nimbus cloud.

First the snow-white leather slippers and stockings, the custom-tailored Nehru collared, single-breasted white linen suit with crisp white shirt and silk tie.

The immaculately-crafted, ivory woolen crown, the cascading beard hinting of peaceful pearls of effervescent foam of a hidden brook yet at once faint rumblings of distance defiant thunders of Victoria Falls framed his placid face.

Fully free of disembarkation, a quick survey of the venue, then the steps begin. His steps were Ailey-like and measured—adagio, regal. The steps were a runner’s steps—after too many races to remember how many had been won.

The steps were a marcher’s steps ready to forge ahead into harm’s way for the sake of purpose and principle. They were the steps of a brave man – a man of courage and substance.

The steps were the simple steps of a humble man that have carried this wisest of men before the least among us and the greatest among us with no shift in tempo or gate.

I observed from the lobby in awe and then I proceeded to the entrance to greet the honoree.

Once clear of the red carpet’s suspension of time the hand extended and the head lowered ever so slightly in the peaceful greeting of one of God’s greatest acts of love – Richard Claxton Gregory.

I believe that whenever God sets among us a common man or woman—a product of modest environment and humble beginnings— and blesses that individual with the ability to demonstrate God’s love through their life, it is a uniquely special gift to us all.

Dick Gregory is such a man – Dick Gregory is such a gift. Dick Gregory is the true measure of a man.

I have, as have many others, referred to Mr. Gregory as a father-figure. Through time it has become apparent to me that he is much more than that.

He is a father-figure for father figures.

It is not at all uncommon in the music business for us to select a mentor or a hero we wish to emulate—someone who’s playing style and lifestyle we are comfortable emulating.

Guitarists look upon Jimi Hendrix as a demi-God. Sax players look to John Coltrane or Charlie Parker for direction.

Trumpeters of today still study Louis Armstrong.

Pianists revere Oscar Peterson.

I’m not a trumpet player but Miles Davis is my artistic compass.

Davis represents artistry for arts sake; not for the sake of industry or popularity, but for art.

That philosophy has become my roadmap and in many respects I view him as one measure of a man for his willingness to endure criticism and scorn for the sake of his convictions.

When I think of Dick Gregory as an influence I suddenly realize he has touched the way I see the world. Then I ask myself why so many have not partaken of his gift of wisdom.

Imagine the music industry if today’s voices of rap and hip hop were more reflective of such wisdom. The voices of reason and compassion and challenge quickly become unpopular.

Imagine the music world if the voices of romance were more reflective of a real man’s sense of partnership and relationship and not just the simplest most basic expressions of titillation.

We have so much to learn. There is so much we need.

There are so many of us who are hurting and in dire need of healing — not “Sexual Healing” but spiritual and mental healing— and leadership and direction is at draught levels.

Dick Gregory makes me consider the way I address the nourishment of my mind and my body.

He makes me read more; listen more carefully and process.

He reminds me of common sense.

He reminds to laugh more.

He reminds me to be passionate, not angry, and he can explain the difference between the two. He can explain the effects of anger on my physiology.

He reminds us that fear and God cannot occupy the same space.

He can explain the effects of fear on our bodies and our families, our communities, our nation and our world.

He reminds us to forgive.

He reminds me of the importance of honesty – first with self, then with others. Dick Gregory is a loving husband to his wife, Lillian, and a father to their 10 children.

By his example he reminds brothers everywhere of the value of husbandhood and fatherhood.

He reminds us of compassion rather than violence in ways that are poignant and compelling.

He reminds us of raindrops and speaks of a God that made us with value as individuals whose one purpose is to return to the river, the ocean, the heavens, to God.

This year we celebrate the 75th birthday of a living legend; someone we can regard as a true hero, living history and in the most relevant sense, the measure of a man.

Happy Birthday Dick Gregory!










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