A Message to my young sisters:
Whatever you call it purse, bag, pocketbook

November 7, 2007

Over the years, my purse/pocketbook/ba g has been very special to me. I have used it as a weapon, a lunch box and a source of comfort, among other things.

I can’t remember exactly when I got my first purse but it seems like I have been carrying them forever. I do remember a phase I went through when I wanted to dress like the ladies on the hit television show, Perry Mason, so I went into my mother’s closet and I would carry her purses or the bags with short handles.

I never got caught up in all the designer bags, much preferring to go with style and not a name or a trend. You’ll find that the older you get, the more you will see that styles are recycled and if you live long enough, they will come around a third time.

You just have to decide whether or not you are going to take that trip every time. There are some things you should know about your purses. Whatever you call it—purse, pocketbook, bag or clutch—take good care of it and don’t let everyone you know have access to it.

There are items you should always have on your person, in your purse. Always keep spare change. Get yourself one of those small sewing kits, floss, a portable toothbrush kit, tissue, mints, sanitary items and wipes. Be sure to put your medication and emergency numbers in a secure place. Some will feel a need to have something to use for self defense. I understand. Just be careful; and make sure you know how to use whatever you decide to carry.

And, under no circumstances should you allow illegal drugs in your purse or on your person!

Your purse is private and no one should enter unless instructed or invited. Make people respect your privacy. Try to have compartments or little baggies to keep things separate and sanitary. If you have pens or pencils, try to have something to put them into to avoid leaks or punctures in or on your material or you.

Or, you might have a separate compartment.

In a study, it was already determined that a woman’s purse is one of the most unsanitary items you can imagine, because we put anything and everything in it. Our purses have become a catchall for everything.

I understand that you may not have a place to discard the tissue that you have just blown your nose with. Well, a baggie might come in handy until you can dispose of the tissue appropriately, without contaminating everything else in your purse.

Some people like carrying large purses and they have any and everything in them. There used to be a television show, “Let’s Make a Deal,” and contestants were given money for pulling bizarre items out of their purses.

Sometimes it helps to carry a smaller bag inside of the larger one, just in case you would like to travel light at some point during the day.

Keeping the items in order in your purse will keep you from rummaging around and accumulating a lot of clutter. And don’t leave your purse open—it attracts EVERYTHING!

Equally important, avoid at all costs, placing your purse on the floor.

This means whether you are in a restaurant, a bathroom or church, you should not put it on the floor or other unsanitary places. Don’t even put it on the floor in your car!

There are things to consider. For example, depending on where you are something could crawl into your “purse.”

Or, you could set it on something filled with deadly bacteria.

Recently an email circulated focusing on placing your bag on the floor in public bathrooms and then placing that same bag on a table or counter where people are eating or serving food.

In this day and age when we are dealing with so many infections and life-threatening diseases surfacing, it is imperative that efforts are made to protect yourself and others from infection.

Currently we are dealing with staph infections. You are being encouraged to wash your hands frequently.

I don’t wish an infection on anyone, but I tell you. I do like the messages encouraging people to wash their hands because some people just won’t!

Then again, what good does it do to wash your hands if you are going to pick up your bag off a floor splattered with urine or other things that will eventually come in contact with your hands, face and mouth?

All this fuss about a purse?

Well, it’s not really fuss. Some things you don’t know unless someone tells you.

That’s the purpose of these messages!




 







Copyright © 1990-2006 Cheryl Smith Online. All Rights Reserved. Site Design by Natalie Carpenter